Glad you’re going with the flow, Helen. Sex should be fun and healthy. Hope your man shows the ultimate consideration and gives you one of those “super absorbent” towels people use on their yoga mats. They really work and reduce laundry loads by half. Let’s hope more women realize open communication can relieve so many of the angst-ridden thoughts that stand in the way of a good orgasm—and a good love life. I think the two are ultimately connected, and certainly better than Haagen-Dazs and Netflix.