I agree, Francesca, but it’s also likely a man’s g-spot is between his ears as well. Perhaps women could take the lead here instead of telling men what “needs to be done.” Men often work by example. So your last comment “—if you know how’ might be followed with “Okay, girls, let’s show them how.” As I mentioned to Richard above, you’re either “in the game” or you’re not. Sex isn’t very good when you’re on the sidelines critiquing instead of playing.