I don’t disagree with what you’re saying, Richard. Sex is a canvas but it’s also a communications board. Both partners need to be communicative and intuitive. I think intuition is critical, and aren’t women supposed to have more intuition than men? If it’s true, then it seems the complaints I’ve mentioned are more based on critical observation rather than intuition, which reminds me of the saying “Everyone’s a critic—or wants to be a critic.” This notion of “sex critique” may play well on a girl’s night out, but it does nothing for a relationship. Either you’re “in the game” or you’re not.